you are the life to my soul. (overdrive_) wrote in advice4love,
you are the life to my soul.
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oh well.. what's new...

remember me? i've been away for some time now.. coz my ex returned home last month... oh god.. he called me up when he had returned.. he asked me out. i asked him if it was ok with his girlfriend.. he said he thinks so coz nothing's wrong with just hanging out with each other. so yeah, we started seeing each other again... and my feelings for him resurfaced... so we started telling each other how we felt.. he said he still loves me. and he's not happy with his situation (since he's already engaged!!). and so i thought eventually i'd have him back.. then a few weeks later, he became cold towards me again... i asked him why, and he said he doesn't believe that he was the only boyfriend i had.. he thinks i cheated (there he goes again!!!), and that i couldn't fool him... now i'm keeping my distance... i'm so stupid... you think a girl would learn!!! it hurts so much that i just keep crying.... what am i supposed to do... why do i love someone who is so cruel to me.. why is it that i couldn't move on.. what's wrong with me....
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It's extremely difficult to move on sometimes, I don't know very many people that wouldn't give someone they really cared about another chance so don't feel stupid about it hun.
I find in getting over someone that's hurt you like that it's helpful to examine the situation from a 'logical' angle rather than an emotional one.
For a start, this boy is unlikely to ever be happy in a relationship, he's obviously immature and has extreme trust issues that from the sounds of it he won't get over.
When you know in your mind what an awful person someone is, it takes a little while for your heart to catch on to that, but it will happen eventually.
Just remember it seems extremely unlikely that it's anything to do with you, this boy is looking for an excuse to end every relationship.
yes you're right... i'm trying to follow what my brain is telling me.. coz my heart just seems to get me into trouble everytime. i mean i want to follow both, but i'm having a difficult time.. :( but hey, thanks a lot!..

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thanks a lot! you guys make me feel so much better...